Tuesday, August 18, 2009

cat got your tongue

today's message is a tough one for me...still working on it. what comes up for me is how difficult it is to talk directly to a person about a problem that i am having with myself or them. crazy...i am practicing trusting myself to know that i will not be abandoned by my loved ones just because we do not agree on something...big or small. if i am happy or unhappy about some happenstance...my loved ones are the ones that i need to share that with...i sometimes choose some uninvolved person to share it with...hmmmm...that is not really living in the solution. it begins with trusting myself and my choices. i can rejoice today in my life and trust that i will be loved by others...even if we do not always agree with one another!

6 comments:

  1. I've really been enjoying visiting your blog! Your art is wonderful, and I can really relate to many of the things you write about.

    Best wishes from Wisconsin,
    Angela

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  2. Your post today hit a chord...one year ago today I chose to talk to my SIL about some things that were bothering me about our relationship. I usually just stuff it down inside me and move on...well I guess I should have kept doing that because she became very angry and has not spoken to me since. sadly this has affected other relationships, my brother and neices. I hope you fare better than I did!

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  3. I hear you loud and clear, dear friend. Trust yourself... it's easy to say and hard to do. We (you and I) get stuck bad because we try to look at an issue, problem, whatever from every angle, listen to all parties involved and usually (at least for me) come out the other end more unsure or mistrusting of our gut instinct than when we started. Everyone has a valid point of view... but it's YOURS that YOU must follow. I pray that the people who truly love you will stick by you.... I will... Merry ;)

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  4. this is definitely a tough lesson, for sure! when we speak from our hearts and do it in the name of love, i think that people usually understand. :)

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  5. Hi Lorri Marie,
    I am so glad you visited my blog and I just spent probably an hour visiting yours and looking at your yummy a piece a day art and reading your posts. We are about the same age (I've got you by a year) I am going to follow you because you're special! See ya later!

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  6. Hi, thank you for your comment on my blog! I'm trying new things now.
    Your works look awesome as usuall. Very autumn colours!

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